Monday, July 1, 2013

I've Never Heard of Senegal


Finding inspiration in a blood-red hotel room with gaudy fleur-de-lis-print carpet can be about as trying as a picking out Waldo back when I was an ambitious 8 year old who thought a nightly sit with Where’s Waldo? counted as “reading.”

He's right THERE...

The Senegalese hospitality has me feeling quite welcome, but my head is still reeling a bit as I grasp the concept of being thrown four hours into the future and on my two feet in Africa. Africa might as well be the moon for all I know; it’s a new land with new people and new languages – the things that make it all so exciting, yet daunting all at once. The soothing lulls of French roll from the tongues of everyone from the random taxi driver waving for my attention at the airport to the receptionist at my hotel, and I’m inspired to translate that warm feeling if I could only find the right way as to how.

Stepping into a new country where I do not speak the language is a new experience for me, and an uncomfortably frustrating one at that. It’s an inexplicable experience that truly flips my perception of life upside down while taking the already massive concept of what we call Earth and multiplying it by 10,000. If you think you’ve seen it all, met as many characters as you think you can in this lifetime, or tasted every spice your palette can handle you’re wrong. Throw a dart at a map, catch the next flight/boat/donkey out of town, and go. While it’s anyone’s guess as to whether what you find will be shocking, disappointing, or exhilarating, it’s undoubtedly going to be new.

Pangea?

And so it is in this foreign land that I find myself at a loss to do even the most elementary of tasks, like take a taxi to my hotel. I settle myself in to what now feels like my desk in kindergarten as I rely on my hands and fingers more than my words to strike an agreement with the driver. Four thousand of anything sounds mighty steep, but we agree on this fare and make our way. I know we agree because he mirrors a handful of four digits over his shoulder and gives me a smile in the rearview mirror. “Oui.”

Thankfully my knowledge of Spanish allows me to recognize many words, especially those scrawled in graffiti as we make our way along the Atlantic Coast and into the streets of Dakar. However, ironically enough, this same knowledge, that gives me at least a semblance of understanding as I eavesdrop on those all around me, is just another frustrating dead end keeping me from communicating with my new acquaintances. My knee-jerk reaction is to respond to all inquiries in Spanish, however, this is just as foreign as my English in Francophone Africa. However, as much as I feel like I’m really not getting anywhere, I manage to at least arrive at my hotel.

So, while I’ve seemingly been silenced by my temporary inabilities, I’ve gained a more powerful skill. Listening.

Listen to the world around you. Listen not only with your ears to the words others speak, but also with your eyes, your sense of touch, and your mind. Enhance your connection to the simplest sounds around you and allow no barrier of spoken word to keep you from the warmth that others radiate, which is spoken in thousands of different languages.

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Happy Birthday Zack!

"Yeah, my name is Zack. Just like 'Zack, Zack, he's a Lego Maniac!'"

Pure 1990s, Zack the Lego Maniac

Any kid growing up in the 1990s knows this famous line of commercials just as well as they know the Bill Nye the Science Guy theme song or the Friday night lineup of T.G.I.F.

Not that Zack was such a foreign name to me that it required a helpful mnemonic or song in order for me to remember, but that was just the way you were. It certainly seemed like an odd way to make an introduction and begin our friendship, but then again I wouldn't have it any other way. I guess I am left to forever associate legos with you and our friendship.

It is yet again your birthday, my friend, reminding me all about the power of friendship and love. It's been nearly 2 years since you left us and I'd like to think I've continued to make you proud during that long hall of changes and growing. I've explored life in Guatemala, PerĂº, and El Salvador, found myself back in Washington DC once more, and am happily spreading the joys of laughter and music with all my closest friends - the same joys I know you passionately held dear.

I fondly reflect on our many memories on a daily occasion, and I hope you know that I did you proud just this past winter break when I beat the original Contra without dying even one time. A feat we used to spend hours trying to accomplish. Of course you know that though, you were watching and guiding me all the way - how else could I have possibly kept getting Spread?

Always have my back

Your Earthly body is gone, but you guide me every day, Zack. It's too dangerous to go alone.

I wish I had something great to give you this year for your birthday, but all I have is this darn pocket full of legos...